Chapter 4.
The Process Of The Blessing
- 1. The Selection Of The Spouse
- 1) Who Determines the Spouse?
- 2) Do Not Decide Your Partner by Yourself
- 3) How Do You Meet Your Ideal Partner?
- 4) It Is Inevitable That Your Partner Is Somewhere
- 5) Man and Woman Are Created in Relation to Each Other
- 6) The Beauty of Woman and the Charm of Man
- 7) Women and Make-up
- 8) Love Affairs are Absolutely Not Allowed
- 2. The Standard For Matching And Our Attitude
- 1) Fathers Eye for Matching
- 2) There Should be the Harmony of Extremes
- 3) The Four Types of Man and Ideal Balance
- 4) You Must Be Able to Go Over "The Hill of the Eye"
- 5) The One Who Wants to Go Down Will Rise Up
- 6) The Prerequisites That Are More Important Than Education
- 7) Marriage Should Be for the Sake of the Descendants
- 8) The Labor of True Parents to Recommend Engagements
- 3. Cases At The Engagement
- Case 1) The Person Who Prays for Himself
- Case 2) Picture Marriage
- Case 3) The Story of a Couple
- Case 4) One Crippled Woman
- Case 5) Three Elites of America
- Case 6) The Faith of One Missionary in the Netherlands
- Case 7) A Blessing for Restoration Through Indemnity
- Case 8) An Incident at the 6000 Couple Blessing
- 4. The Process Of The Blessing And Its Meaning
- 1) The Meaning of the Engagement Ceremony
- 2) The Process of Being Reborn Through the Holy Wine Ceremony
- 3) The Meaning of Receiving the Holy Wine
- 4) The Position of Man and Woman in Restoration
- 5) The Meaning of the Blessing Ceremony
- 6) The 40-Day Indemnity Period
- 7) The Indemnity Stick Ceremony and the Three-Day Ceremony
- 8) Three-Year Mobilization After the Blessing
- 9) The Blessing is the Last Road